Integrity
The true definition of integrity integritas comes from the Latin word which means "together" or "intact". It is smoothly all the traits that make a "good" person really like honesty, being incorruptible, morally right and right.
A person with integrity will not lie, will keep their word and not screw you over. They will not go behind your back, you denigrate, go after the partner of another person or cheating on you, and they adhere to a code of ethics that can make them predictable, but safely and heart reason. No unpleasant surprises come from someone with a high sense of integrity. They follow a code of ethics that tends to be, as the word implies, incorruptible, and they adhere to the principles of decency.
2. Courageousness
Let's face it, folks. Who wants to be a coward? Someone who can not and does not want to fight for their own beliefs certainly will not stand up for yourself or someone else. Courageousness may not seem like a big deal to some, but by looking at the history, we see that the cowards are not too different from criminals. Why? Because the most heinous crimes of humanity would not have succeeded if it had not been for the silent spectators and those watching elsewhere. Not usually Courage also means no principles, that will make you sustainable for the simple reason that only loose the slightest effort needed and pull the tail and run when real work is required.
3. Sense of humor
Life has its ups and downs. There will be good times, bad times, hard times and easy times. Everything is easier if a sense of humor, or at least around with those who have one guard. There is a reason that poll after poll shows that most people want a sense of humor to their partners. I also think that someone who I mostly laugh probably will not make me cry too often either. For some strange reason, this equation works for me.
4. Intelligence, education and common sense
I met many people in my life with a high IQ and no common sense. My personal belief is that common sense, social intelligence and "resourcefulness" are almost the same. Being able to solve the most difficult mathematical problems will not anyone a partner or friend, if they can not hold a conversation, relate to others at all and have zero social skills. Social skills or for other skills are needed to use common sense dictates what or what not to do or say in every day settings. Overall, I do not think any explanation is needed when it comes to this point.
5. Open emotionally
Nobody wants to be with someone who is so closed that they can not show more "normal" emotions. If you've ever tried to be friends or have a relationship with someone who has the emotional depth of a rock, you know what I mean. How can someone who has a sense of evil, or show feelings would tell you? I think the middle is our friend here. There is a difference between someone who is so closed that just looking at you without understanding, or worse, scold you or ask you when you feel sad or unhappy, and then there are those that break down as soon as somebody a look at them the wrong way. Being able to share his heart does not mean that one must be a wimp or whiner. Someone who can not feel is usually damaged property, and the lack of depth in the emotional issues usually results in a lack of depth in other areas!
6. Kindness
Kindness protects you against all kinds of heart ailments. Kindness is like integrity. A person with kindness will usually keep your heart safe and your best interests in mind. Their willingness to help others is also reflected by someone who knows how to put the needs of others before their own when needed. A person type has a fire, and the light tends to attract other "good" people too.
7. Self-confidence
Everyone is low on confidence here and there. But stay away from those who literally have no self-esteem. A person without self-confidence/self-esteem is a disaster, because they will fail on many other "must-haves." They are usually driven by self-preservation, and will do anything to overcome their feelings of helplessness. This can make them psychotic and suspicious, and perhaps even make stalkers. Which, in turn, almost always ensures dishonesty, a heart / inability to feel and experience the love and joy a lack of integrity and certainly not really closed courage. They are usually a bucket with a huge hole in the bottom. Regardless of how much love and care we will pay for them, it will never be enough for that they feel safe, loved, or not good enough. After all, it is impossible to love and care for someone who does not love and take care of themselves!
8. Discipline
There are different levels of discipline, that's for sure. But avoid those who have absolutely no discipline. It takes discipline to succeed in life. Anyone who throws in the towel at the first sign of difficulty or opposition will not be an ideal long-term companion. This is because the discipline translates into force, namely endurance. A person who can not stick to something for a long period of time because it is uncomfortable or means of work, once again, someone who is not confident or lazy. In both cases, it will not be a winning situation for you, because if they can not stick to their own objectives, they do not stick with you either.
9. Generosity
One of the worst people to have in his life is a miser. Those who constantly complain about the money they do not have, especially during the spend on things that do not serve them, are not only annoying but also not fun to have around. The opposite of generosity is selfish and wants to be with a selfish person? Be stingy also tends to show individuals who are very concerned about material, ie superficial things. Combine that with the constant complaint of not having enough, and you have a good idea of how life with someone who may not be as generous eyes.
10. Self-awareness
I can not emphasize the importance of awareness of itself sufficient. Most people believe all kinds of things they are not. This is because they are not really all that self-knowledge, and therefore never check to see if their idea of who they are consistent with what others see about them. Self-awareness is the fine balance to really know your strengths and weaknesses without being either totally weak and self-loathing, or arrogant and narcissistic. Self-awareness allows us to know when we are away from our rocker. It allows us to see when we are wrong / messed up and we may have to adjust or change certain behaviors and habits. Self-awareness allows us to look in the mirror and see who we really are, not what we think we are or we were hoping. People without self-awareness can not grow because they can never learn from past mistakes. They are literally blind and lost souls, stumbling after what looks and sounds more attractive. Without self-awareness there is no truth, just illusion, and a perpetual cycle of trying to find what they think make them happy. If you do not know who you are, you sure as hell do not know what makes you happy.
If you can not be these things yourself, you probably will not attract other. While we will always attract those who challenge us and can cause us to grow and overcome some things, we always attract those who are like us. The key to finding his own happiness is to be the things you need and want in another
in general , this is the summary :
- Integrity - a good person is trustworthy and honest when honesty really matters.
- Respect - a good person respects the rights, differences in taste and opinion and personal space and property of others.
- Compassion - a good person who cares about others and is to help his fellow human beings. He / she recognizes and made amends for the mistakes and forgive others for their own human frailties. (Humility and forgiveness.)
- Courage - a good person in mind to defend what is right and fair. -- (Justice)
Reason - the reason is the compass that keeps the right person pointing in the right direction. It keeps all the other features of the balance and paves the way for fair and beneficial actions.
- imaginative, fils reconnait (ou ses) Potentiel et a l'ambition de Réaliser
- intelligents, curieux de Comprendre Les Choses
aime à partager, Naturellement bonne personne
désireux d'expérimentateur de nouvelles Choses, d'ouverture d'esprit
- capable d'être empathique et raisonnable
- reconnait intuitivement beauté et les vertus, un fils propre Système de Valeurs Qui s'aligne AVEC Qui IL Est
- Ne Pas s'accrocher à Quelque Chose, s'appuie sur sa propre puissance
- Croit qu'il N'y un pas de situations désespérées, détermine une Réussir D'Une Manière ous d'Une Autre
- Opposé à l'de arrogant, ne se Prend Pas trop au sérieux, un non sens de l'humour
- NE patient Pas à Une image de taille fixe de lui-meme ous du monde, Ouverts au Changement
- Croit Les Gens font du Mieux qu'ils le savent, bon à lâcher
- Inspirez interne et conduit à l'action, interessés à s'exprimer, ATTIRANT et charismatique...
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